One of the worst feeling that people may have is the feeling of not being acknowledged by the group where he/she belongs to. You might be in the same group, doing the same thing, but the acknowledgement is just not there to grasp ... One of the cause is probably the inability to have the same mindset or knowledge as most people in the group ....
When faced with this kind of situation, there are basically 2 things we could do ...
1. Just shrink back and let that feeling of insecurity takes over
2. Realized that it is just part of life, even Jesus had to endure this during his life, and fight your way up ...
Which way will I choose?
3 comments:
wah hans, beneran nih not the same?
ehehehhe ..
gua ga ngomongin ttg kantor kok ... Work is fine, it is good in fact, thank God ... Hari ini pada makan bareng ama anak2 city nih gua ...
adi
i found it too emotion-consuming to let the insecurity takes in, or fighting your way up to fit in. perhaps would rather learn to be there all i can (apart from where there are rooms for improvements), but keeping the cool still sometimes enables you to step back a little to realise that the majority is not always what counts. further still, nobody is normal until you get to know them, and a person is unique. worse however, if you think that you are less than normal while everyone is just thinking that they are as well. (feeling oo.. feeling, just feel it, but never let it takes control, still human tho..)
Thanks for the encouragement people ... I guess good friends encourage one another huh, that is just natural ...
Thankful banget that I have good friends that I can trust ... Ganbate ooo!!
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